Coaching Works Wonders
Do you recognize yourself here? You may be a great candidate for
coaching if you possess five or more of the following characteristics.
Coaching works wonders for people who are:
- Brilliant and Multi-Faceted
They are bright and creative people who understand complexity
yet can find simplicity in complex situations. They are talented
in diverse ways, and interested in working on many aspects of
themselves. They are able—and WILLING—to see things
from multiple perspectives.
- Savvy
They are well-read, informed, and current on what is going on
in their part of the world, be it parenting, teaching, accounting,
or leading, and they have a feel for what constitutes Best Practices
(even tho they may not be doing it themselves, yet).
- Purposeful
Like the Conquistadors of old, they have pulled their ship to
the shore, then burned it—they are committed to moving forward
and recognize that their coach's role is to accelerate their progress,
not initiate it.
- Responsible
They come to the relationship understanding that they alone are
responsible to deliver results. They deliver on promises made
to self and others. They take responsibility for their own actions
and outcomes, and rarely place blame.
- Quick to process and commit
They are people you can "see" thinking. They process
and examine concepts quickly, and are comfortable making commitments
in the moment. Decisions may take time to consider, but they will
still commit to writing, research, practice, experimentation,
setting deadlines, and practice, practice, practice, so as to
keep moving forward.
- Energized
They have a zest for life. Whether introverted or extraverted,
they have deep wells of positive energy and they understand what
drains them and what renews them (and if they don’t know,
they are willing to “go there” to find out).
- Optimistic
They believe in the inherent goodness of people and that there
is a positive perspective on any situation, even when that it
not apparent. They are resilient and recover quickly from setbacks.
They are self-healing.
- Willing to Explore
They will try a new restaurant, drive a different route, change
a behavior, take a risk, or go deeper within. They seek ideas
and suggestions, then act on them to learn what they can from
the experience.
- Curious
They ask questions and seek to understand self and others better.
- Confessed Chocaholics (or procrastinators, or micro-managers,
etc)
They willingly admit their "addictions" to both self
and coach, and are ready to make the life-long commitment to change
that may be required to improve their life and attain their goals.
- Comfortable with Self
They are willing to look in the mirror and acknowledge what's
there -- and what's not. They acknowledge and celebrate their
talents and their faults. Though they may be itching to shed it
and proceed with metamorphosis, they are currently "comfortable
in their own skin."
How’d you do? Can you say“yes” to five or more
of these? Ready to commit to changing your life, becoming a fabulous
leader, or increasing your happiness? Let’s talk!
For more information or to discuss Coaching, contact me.
By the way—this is MY checklist for Coachability. If you
want a coach, yet you can’t check off five or more of the
above, don’t despair. I can connect you with a good coach—it
just probably won’t be me.
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